Kum sawm tam tak liam tawhah khan zirchiangtute chuan hmeichhiate vawrtawp (orgasm) thlen awlsam dan thuruk an hmuchhuak a – mahse chu thil chu mipa tlemte chauhin an hria tih relationship guru Nadia Bokody chuan a sawi.

Sexpert pakhat chuan, mipaten khum laizawlah pa ropui an nih zia lantir an duh tak tak a nih chuan "darkar li chhung sex dan" hi an hriat chian a ngai a ni, a ti.

Nadia Bokody chuan hun duhrei lo leh awlsam taka hmeichhia te tih lawm dan pawh hi mipaten an hriat tho a ngai niin a sawi a. Hlimna tluantling thlen tur erawh chuan an kawppui hmeichhete hlimna an ngaihpawimawh hle a ngaih thu a sawi bawk. Vawrtawp thlen tur chuan mi ṭhenkhat chu darkar khat thlenga foreplay leh ngaihven a ngai thei bawk.

Nadia hian 'patil Partlailua-i' a inti mai a, a chhan pawh patil a ni tih hi kum 10 chuang mipa nen an khawsak dun hnuah a hrechhuak ve chauh a ni. 

Mahse, hmeichhiate nena mipat hmeichhiatna lama a experiment a ṭan tirh khan, 'khuahkhirhna atanga chhuah zalen' ni hiala a inhriat thu a hrechhuak leh lawisi tih a sawi. 

A thil tawn chu danglamin a nawm dan zawk thlengin tawn hriat nei mah se, mipaten an zirtir leh kalpui tawh thin anga sex kalpui chu thil diklo tawp a nih bik loh vangin pen hlat san em em a tum bik hran lo niin a sawi bawk.

News.com.au tana a thu ziakah chuan,"Kan chhevel thil thleng leh cheimawina ilo hi chu thil pawimawh a ni lem lo, khum sira ribbon sen khai uai nena pawimawh loh dan inchen reng a ni," a ti. 

Gender & Society-a paper tihchhuahah chuan zirchiangtu Nicole Andrejek, Tina Fetner leh Melanie Heath te chuan, hmeichhiate reng reng mipa hlimna ngaih pawimawh hmasa ber tura zirtir an nih thin avangin mipa ten hmeichhe dinhmun an hriatthiampui tawk lo va, hmeichhe tam zawk chuan mipa tihlawm tum ringawtna 'method' hi an hmang ta char char a ni, a ti. 

Hemi ziaktute chuan,"Hmeichhia ten sex an hman reng rengin a vawrtawp an thlen ve na turin mipa aia chanvo nei tlem zawkah an inngai tlat thin a, heihi thil dik ber a ni lo. Chuvangin nuam taka sex hmang tur chuan mahni kan inhriat chian a pawimawh a, chutih rualin kan nih dan kha tlang takin kan kawppuite kan hrilh hriat ve a ngai bawk a ni," an ti. 

Nadia chuan, sex life hmangtu tam zawk chuan vawrtawp thleng turin hun a duh rei hle tih ngaihdan an nei nghal ngawt a, heihi hnawl a hun tawh niin a sawi. A sawi dan chuan,"Tun hma chuan mipa tlemte chauhvin an kawppuite nuam tih dan leh an duh dan zawh nachang an hria," a ti. 

Hei hi kum 2017-a Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy-a zirchianna an tihchhuahah a lang a, inpawlna ngawr ngawr hmang chauha vawrtawp theng theia inngai hmeichhia 18% vel chauh an awm thu a tarlang nghe nghe.

Chumi awmzia chu, 77% vel chuan a tak tak thlen hmain foreplay leh a behbawm hmanga hun engemaw chen khawsak hmasak an duh tih a tilang bakah vawrtawp thleng turin a tichak zawk hle tih a hriat theih a ni. 

Nadia chuan zirchiangtute chuan kum sawm tam tak chhung chu hmeichhiate tana climax an thlen theihna tur kawng rintlak ber chu thiltih hmangin an hre tawh a, chu chu a taka inpawl kher lo pawhin 'vanram tlafual' chu a chen theih hle a ni tiin a sawi bawk. 

Hmeichhiate mamawh ber hi hriatthiam a harsa a, rang taka vawrtawp thlen ringawt pawh hi an lunglawmna a ni hauh lo niin an sawi. Hun eng emaw chen thathona siam sak zawhah, duat taka inchul kual vel zawhah vawrtawp thlen hian hmeichhia te a tilungawi hle tih an hmuchhuak.

Nadia hian mipa escort Samuel Hunter chu interview-in, inpawlna chungchanga hmeichhe lawm sanna ber thlen theitu a zawt a. Hmanhmawh miah lo va,'Foreplay leh boruak zangkhai siam sak hmasak' a pawimawh thuin a chhang. Chuchuan hun rei zawk nawmna vawrtawp a thlentir thei niin a sawi bawk. 

Nupa nuna nuam vawrtawp thleng tur chuan hmanhmawh miah lo va, darkar li tal khawsak hi Nadia chuan hmeichhiate hlimna thlen thei ber niin a ngai. Hmeichhia zawng zawng erawh an inanglo a, an danglam bikna lai erawh hriatsak a pawimawh thu a sawi. Thenkhat chuan sex hman nan darkar li vel an mamawh lo mai thei bawk niin a sawi. 

Hetianga mipa ten an kawppuite an khawsakpui thei ngat a nih chuan in pahniha inpawhna tha zawk a siamsak bakah, i kawppui nu khan nun hlimna ruk a chhar ngeiin a rinawm.